Dating For Losers: A Technique Even Noobs Can Apply Right Away!
Let me guess – You’ve been rejected by women a number of times.
You tried being cool but came off too sheepish.
You read books, audio courses and what not but face problems when it comes to meeting women in the real world.
The first words comes outta your mouth and then you find yourself short of words.
Now you just don’t want to try any more.
Wish there was a magic pill that could turn you into a charming handsome lad in no time.
Alas, you think you’re a loser.
And that’s how you landed on Dating For Losers!
The fact that you are here reading this means you are well on your way to get there. You’ve got to splash around and get wet in the field to truly experience it and this little article will help you get started. But remember, YOU have to implement.
Now…
This isn’t only for dating for losers but even for the master players out there (Even they slip off the roads at times)
Moreover, let me address a question that gets asked too often:
Is Online Dating For Losers?
In short, No! And the principle I am going to layout here can be applied online AND offline.
Get a pen and paper ready…
You’re about to embark upon a great adventure!
Dating For Losers Manifesto
It’s a concept I learned from the famous pickup artist Juggler. I can’t remember what he exactly calls it, but it’s got to do with “Rewards”…
And it’s simple.
Only reward her when she makes an effort.
Example:
You meet someone for the first time and 30 seconds into the conversation you start smiling. WRONG MOVE! (Tell me how many times you’ve done that already!)
Look, when you smile off at her, you’re “rewarding” her when she hasn’t made any effort yet!
Simple concept. Yet VERY powerful.
You: What are your hobbies?
She: I like shopping
You: Smile (from ear to ear)
In this case, you are rewarding her for for saying “I like shopping” and to her, this only shows you are desperate.
Here’s what to do instead.
You: What are your hobbies?
She: I like shopping
You: Hmm… so have you pushed someone out of the queue?!
She: (Giggles) Yes there was this one time… (continues with her story) *Now she’s making an effort!*
You: Smile
See what I mean?
Now I am not going to spill all the beans here. Read Juggler’s book for that.
But I’ve laid out the ground for you so go out start testing.
Go get the fish!